Too many of us go around constantly putting ourselves down. We find it necessary to apologise for existing in a world full of people who are far more important.
Well I have news for you. You are important. Yes – you, sitting at your computer reading this.
How do you answer when someone asks you what you do for a living? Do you say, “Oh – I’m just a cleaner” or “Nothing special – I’m a teacher”? Do you look down at the floor and mutter something about working with computers? Or look sheepish and apologise for being a stay-at-home mum?
The fact is, it doesn’t matter what you do – doctor, lawyer, Indian chief – you are not what you do. You are so much more than that. You are the product of all your experiences and everything you have learned from them. You have a lot to offer the world, you just haven’t realised it yet.
A Message From The Movies
We are all important. When I think about this, it reminds me of the film “It’s A Wonderful Life”. If you haven’t seen it, I strongly recommend you take a couple of hours to sit down and watch it. It’s generally thought of as a Christmas movie, because the action takes place around Christmas, but you can watch it any time.
It tells the story of George Bailey, one of the good guys in the small town of Bedford Falls, New York. All his life, George has put other people first, ignoring his own needs. We follow George’s life until one Christmas Eve he finds himself standing on a bridge contemplating suicide, believing he has ruined the lives of everyone around him.
At this point, Clarence Oddbody, George’s guardian angel, is despatched in an attempt to save him. If he is successful, Clarence will be awarded his wings and become a fully-fledged angel. Initially, he distracts George from his suicidal thoughts by throwing himself into the river and appearing to be in danger of drowning. Good guy that he is, George jumps in and drags Clarence to safety.
But this is just a temporary fix – in order to change George’s view of himself, Clarence has to resort to more devious measures. He shows George a vision of a timeline in which he never existed. In this timeline, George’s brother Harry died in a childhood accidentvbecause George wasn’t around to save him. In turn, Harry does not grow up to be a Navy pilot and shoot down a kamikaze plane headed for a troop transport. And control of Bedford Falls comes into the hands of local miser Henry Potter.
Horrified by all this, George begs for things to be restored to the way they were. His wish is granted, he abandons his suicidal plans and the story ends happily. Oh – Clarence gets his wings!
So the point is – none of us knows how different the world would be without us. We all matter and we all need to believe that.
So don’t apologise for being you. Get out there and claim your place in the world.